What is a clingy person?
What Does It Mean to Be Clingy? Having a clingy personality means that a person tends to stay very close to someone for support, protection, and more.
I recently read a post by someone about being clingy. She did not know for sure how she felt about it.
That struck a chord with me so I decided to think about my own experiences. Do I know anyone who is clingy? Am I clingy? So here is my take on it.
From the moment we met, Annie and I knew there was something special and unusual about our friendship and relationship. We just could not stay away from each other. The fact that neither of us had ever had a relationship with someone like each other did not sway us. We were like two peas in a pod.
It did not matter what we were doing, or where we were going, we enjoyed the constant touching of each other in so many ways. Walking down the street, her with her thumb tucked into my belt and me with my hand stuffed into her back pocket so I could feel her ass made both of us very happy.
Hands in each others jeans, holding hands on the beach, sitting in front of the tube with her feet in my lap…anywhere and everywhere, there was the described safety and support and protection.
I was so protective of her that I could not let her go unless we were apart. There were so many days and nights we looked into each others eyes as we touched and explored. She always knew that I was there for her no matter what or who we encountered when out in public, and in private I was able to prove my love for her over and over again. She thrived under my touch and I suppose to an outside observer we might have been perceived as clingy.
Annie certainly did not care, and neither did I. Since she has been gone, I cannot imagine going on without someone to hold and touch like that. Annie was as dependent upon my touch, as I was to hers.
So…yes…I suppose I am a clingy person without that special someone to cling to, to support, and to protect, to walk hand in hand, to walk with my hand in her back pocket so I could feel the curve of her backside, like I did for Annie…